Nice People

It's a miracle, the little things people say that can touch your heart or make you feel strong and happy like none other. These simple thoughts they receive through paying attention to minute details or being considerate and then voice aloud, they are just a wonder, a proof that you don't need to plan or rehearse or fret over what you're going to say to impress someone or lift their spirit. Rather, through Occam's razor, we find that the words that come easiest are often the kindest and most powerful of truths.

I have been impacted by so many of these simple statements, especially tonight (hence the post.) Namely, three individuals turned my night around, further cementing a place in my heart for them. I'd like to honor them here, in case I never get the courage to thank/rethank them.

Logan led off the night, forcing convincing me to do something I was scared to. As I did it, he continually helped and encouraged me, being my humble assistant. When I finished, still terrified but feeling a lot more confident, he told me I did a fantastic job. He made me do what I needed to do and told me what I have been needing to hear in order to make me feel a little closer to my healthy self-image.

The next two were much shorter and simpler, but equally as edifying. After the friend song, Alex hugged me and said that he had seen me earlier and just thought I was gorgeous. It was so honest and kind and sweet, and I nearly about started crying. Then Natalie thanked me for running. I wasn't sure what she was talking about til she reminded me that I had run while setting up yard markers for practice. She said she knew I didn't run so as not to die from asthma, but was amazed and grateful for the fact that I ran for the band. Simple act, simple statement.

Could we do that? Could us normal people be more open and honest, sharing and finding as much meaning in the modern day world where I do the same routine over and over? Or more importantly, in someone else's life, schedule, everything.